This May, I made a resolution to make the most of dealing with my grandmother’s cancer. She is currently in the late stages of gall bladder cancer, and within the past few months has progressed quite quickly. However, I never really know how bad it is, because every time I call, she uses all her effort to sound cheerful, and does not let on how tired and weak she really is.

Read a previous introspective post where I grapple with the difficulty of saying goodbye to my grandmother for the last time here.

I started a twitter poll asking others how their lives have been affected by cancer, and pledged to donate 1$/response to the American Cancer Society. I hoped that this contest would not only raise awareness about cancer, but also form a support network for me. It’s comforting to know that so many others have gone through this, to whom I can seek advice.

Here are the responses to the question: How has your life been affected by cancer?

RT@ redrobinrockn oh sweetie, so sorry 2 hear that. I understand. I lost my beloved brother 2cancer. I wish I could hug you right now

RT@ mckayzoo1year breast cancer survivor.Life is good& I have hair again!

RT @lmyeaney 1 grandmother passed from throat cancer, and the other is a lung(12yrs) & breast(3yrs) cancer survivor!

RT@bnax: my mom has been fighting cancer for nearly 16 years

RT @ChoosingChange my mother has lost two close friends to cancer. When I was a teen a friend died from lung cancer

bnax@troubledcrystal my mom has had cancer for 15 years going on 16 soon and she is still fighting it every day

karebear3261@troubledcrystal My husband went into a major depressive episode after being his mother’s caregiver…she had lung cancer

inedia_bella@troubledcrystal My grandmother died from it. My aunt had a double masectomy because of it.

ChoosingChange@troubledcrystal my aunt is battling breast &now possibly blood cancer. Her amazing attitude encourages those that should be encouraging her

ChoosingChange@troubledcrystal she was diagnosed after her husband finished such intense chemo treatments that they were not allowed to use same washrooms

alicencrazyland: Lost both parents to cancer thus my mental health issues. Smoking is no joke!

That’s 10 responses for 10$

Thanks to everyone who responded!

I was trying to finish my essay (still am, 12 pages and 6 hours to go, and its 1am), when the funniest sex noises I have ever heard came from the room downstairs. I posted this question on my twitter: What do you usually do if you are trying to work and your neighbors are distracting you with their loud lovemaking?

These are the responses I got – pretty funny:

AnnasBones ask if you can join?

Dr_Idgie If playing music dsn’t work, u may try focusing on the sound for a minute. That can help the brain “expect” it & tune it out

austinbires@troubledcrystal Distract their lovemaking with even louder lovemaking…

DarkeSharpfang@troubledcrystal hit record, then call and play it to them on the phone

DarkeSharpfang@troubledcrystal or just call and aak if they can keep it down or hurry up. I’d just put my headphones on, though

DarkeSharpfang@troubledcrystal ooo, call the cops and say you heard screams from the apt downstairs

motionblur@troubledcrystal When they’re done, laugh really loud and say, “Is that all you’ve got?”